Context matters

Myths & Realities

“Mormon” is a nickname used in broader culture. The Latter Day Saint movement includes multiple denominations (for example, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Community of Christ, and others). Individual beliefs and practices vary across congregations, cultures, and families. Below are common perceptions—handled with respect, clarity, and a little gentle humor.

Notes: General statements below won’t fit every person or denomination. If something doesn’t match your experience, that’s okay—add your voice on the “Share Your Story” page.


Reality

Latter-day Saint communities are global. Utah is a historic center, but congregations meet on every populated continent, in dozens of languages.

Why people think this

Utah’s history, visible temples, and media coverage create a strong association—like assuming all surfers live in Hawaii.


Chuckle: Utah is important, but missionaries have already left the state… by, like, a few million miles.

Reality

Some 19th‑century Latter-day Saints practiced plural marriage. Today, mainstream denominations do not practice it and many explicitly prohibit it. Separate independent groups exist and are not affiliated with mainstream bodies.

Why people think this

Historic practice + sensational TV coverage = confusion about what mainstream members believe and live now.


Chuckle: The only thing most members are trying to multiply today is their calendar reminders.

Reality

Many members of Latter Day Saint denominations identify as Christian and center their faith on Jesus Christ. Theology and worship forms may differ from other Christian traditions.

Why people think this

Different vocabulary (e.g., “ward,” “stake,” “mission”), additional scriptures, and distinctive practices can make it feel unfamiliar from the outside.


Chuckle: It’s like discovering your favorite song has a remix—same melody, different arrangement.

Reality

Many members avoid coffee and tea for religious reasons. Choices around other caffeinated drinks can vary by person and culture.

Why people think this

Short version of a longer guideline (“Word of Wisdom”) gets simplified into a universal rule. Real life is more nuanced.


Chuckle: The safest party beverage is always… water. Hydration never broke a commandment.

Reality

Missionaries come from many countries and backgrounds. Ages and durations can vary by program and denomination.

Why people think this

The iconic white-shirt nametag image is memorable—so the diversity behind it gets overlooked.


Chuckle: Not all nametags are the same—some get rained on in Manila, others get snowed on in Montreal.

Reality

Temples and meetinghouses serve different purposes. Most weekly services happen in local meetinghouses; temples are reserved for specific ceremonies and personal worship.

Why people think this

From the outside, any sacred building can look like “the church.” The functions are different.


Chuckle: Think of meetinghouses as the living room and temples as the quiet study—same home, different rooms.

Reality

Family life is emphasized, but family size varies widely. Some have many children, some have few, some none; many include adoptive and blended families.

Why people think this

Historic photos + a few famous examples become a norm in people’s minds.


Chuckle: Potluck math is universal—no matter the family size, someone always brings the best rolls.

Reality

Worship usually happens on Sunday, but families often add rest, service, music, visits, reading, nature walks, and a well‑timed nap.

Why people think this

“Sabbath day” gets pictured as a single event block, not a day with a rhythm.


Chuckle: When the casserole timer dings right after the closing hymn—that’s providence (or planning).

Reality

Personalities, politics, humor, talents—human variety is alive and well. Shared beliefs coexist with very different lives.

Why people think this

From a distance, any community can look uniform. Up close, it’s clearly diverse.


Chuckle: If you’ve met one Latter-day Saint… congratulations, you’ve met exactly one.

Reality

For many, certain clothing and ceremonies are sacred and personal. Public curiosity is common, but members may choose not to discuss details.

Why people think this

Anything unfamiliar becomes a conversation magnet. Respectful privacy is part of many faiths.


Chuckle: “It’s personal” is a complete sentence—and a friendly one.

Reality

Media tends to highlight extremes. Everyday faith looks like service projects, family dinners, studying, working, hiking, laughing—regular life with spiritual aims.

Why people think this

Quiet goodness isn’t noisy. Headlines are.


Chuckle: The most dramatic thing at many church events is the dessert table disappearing.


Want to add a myth or reality from your region? Share your story. Kindly, please—humor is welcome, mockery is not.